求一英语作文why should not we criticize children from time to time ,and how to criticize correctly11

求一英语作文why should not we criticize children from time to time ,and how to criticize correctly11
求一英语作文why should not we criticize children from time to time ,and how to criticize correctly
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求一英语作文why should not we criticize children from time to time ,and how to criticize correctly11
WHY SHOULD NOT WE CRITICIZE CHILDREN FROM TIME TO TIME,AND HOW TO CRITICIZE CORRECTLY
As adults,we have always been told that it is our obligation to teach the children how to conduct themselves properly in the world.Thus,people used to correct children's mistakes in behavior through giving them some criticisms.It is right for us to criticize in a positive way but sometimes criticizing the children can be harmful to them if the criticisms given are too harsh.
Most of the time,people would forget that children have more fragile hearts than us which may broke easily.Consequently,we might brutally criticize about the faults and failures of the children and break the children's hearts without being aware of it.Children may need our citicisms in their developments but it is kind of important for us to not to criticize the children after they have been tried hard in doing something even if they fail.Once the feelings or self-esteem of the children being hurted,they will be afaird of the possibility of failing while they want to give something a try and lose the courage to dream.This will bring up bad influences to the shaping of the way the children think,feel,behave and learn now and in the future,
Therefore,it matters a lot for us to know how to criticize the children in a correct way.First of all,a consructive criticism should be given in realizing children are also individuals like us that sharing the same feelings as well.We must try to relate to them as we would like others to relate to us.Furthermore,we should have our message clear.If we don't have an idea we are trying to convey,then all we are doing by criticizing the children is venting our own anger and frustration.Remember,our goal with criticism is to educate,not to punish or embarrass or to seek revenge against the children.When we criticize we must have something we are trying to teach.
In conclusion,it is acceptable to criticize the children as long as it brings no harm but means something which will help in getting them become a better person they could be.
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why should not we criticize children from time to time, and how to criticize correctly

Children are growing everyday, blank as a sheet of white paper. What we draw on the paper will ...

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why should not we criticize children from time to time, and how to criticize correctly

Children are growing everyday, blank as a sheet of white paper. What we draw on the paper will eventually reveal to us, that is to say: praising or criticizing will bring about good or bad outcome correspondingly anyway. What will be your choice? Beautiful images or ugly ones ? Apparently, anyone with common sense will choose the former.
However, children should be properly disciplined.
No discipline means they lack correct guidance, and they may get lost in difficult choices. They may idle with spoiled friends, they may waste their precious time on meaningless things...
In one word, they may be ruined by your "kindess".
How to coiticize them is really a challenge to any parent.
First, you should try to be their friends. Get to know them, get to know their demands.
Second, you should grasp a little psychology. Everything in the world has its regularities. Other's knowledge may be of great assistance in our practice. Besides, we will find the knowledge helpful.
Third, try to exchange experience with others who have the same concerns. Just as the flowers, our children are same lovely and naughty as well. They may have flaws.
Briefly, children are not born to be blamed time and time again, in my opinion, they deserve well disciplining.

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It has been a hot topic in teachers and parents. As we know, everyone should be respect and all the people have their selfrespect. If we criticize children from time to time, we may hurt their confide...

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It has been a hot topic in teachers and parents. As we know, everyone should be respect and all the people have their selfrespect. If we criticize children from time to time, we may hurt their confidence. We will do things worse while we are not confident, so as the children. If we blame them from time to time, we may get things even worse. It just like that we have put things in the wrong circle, things will get worse and worse.
We should criticize children correctly. How? If a child had made a mistake, we should guide him to know that he was wrong by himself. And we should guide him to know how to make it right. Leting a child know what he did is wrong and how to correct it is a kind of learning. We should make the process interesting and encouraging. That's our responsibility.

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The reason that we should not criticize children from time to time is that Chirdren is growing, too much critics will affect them very much. A child who always being criticized by his parents will th...

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The reason that we should not criticize children from time to time is that Chirdren is growing, too much critics will affect them very much. A child who always being criticized by his parents will think that he worths nothing , he is a failure, he can't do anything better, everybody else is better than him etc .. which may cause him to lack confidence and look down upon himself .
But how to criticiza correctly? In my view, i think we should treat them tenderly, guide them,let them realize their mistakes and then take their own lesson. By this way , they can develop heathly both in physical and in mind.

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Parents have an obligation to teach their children how to conduct not likely to repeat it, there is nothing added by acknowledging his